my mom told me that my sister who got married in march is now 5 weeks pregnant. mom seemed happy. but she dinna announce it to the whole clan yet during our weekend gathering in ipoh last weekend. she must have her own reason.
my other sister who got married in 2006 is still trying. she's been undergoing several tests and procedures and up till this moment still not giving up hope. though we are close i am not that good in discussing this kind of issues with her. belum ada rezeki kot.
as for me for the time being i am contented with two of my own.
the first one was concieved right after we got married.
and the second one came four years after.
when i conceived my first born i was hoping for a girl. with all the dresses and hair bands in town who wouldn't. masa scanned and was told that it could be a boy i was still hoping up till the last minute that it could also be a girl. bukannya tak bersyukur. terlalu mengikut emosi agaknya. dapat boy pun ok. alhamdulillah.
when we decided to start trying for the second child i did some research as to how to conceive baby girl with the help and power of the Internet and of course that was just for fun, as at the end of the day semua tu kuasa allah.
some of my friend believed in Chinese lunar calender. but i did not. sebab tak nampak logicnya. tapi mungkin kita punya hormon ikut kitaran bulan ke ape ke? ntahlah
but it took me quite some time to get pregnant second time around. faktor umur dan terlampau mengikut tips hendak mendapat anak perempuan gamaknya.
yang bestnya allah makbulkan juga doa. alhamdulillah.
so for now my prayer goes to both my sisters (the newly pregnant and the one who's been trying) and all ladies out there of the same boat. insyaallah
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